Can a narcissist love you? My immediate answer would be, of course yes; they love themselves. But can they love? you? Narcissists exist a spectrumso does their ability to love also exist on a spectrum? Narcissists would argue that can…
Living paycheck to paycheck, it can feel like your money is disappearing as soon as it arrives in your account. One minute it’s paid off, and the next it’s going toward rent, groceries, transportation, and a handful of unexpected expenses.…
There are certain expressions that manipulators use to get what they want. All they have to do is make you feel guilty. They do this well. Many expressions are used by the manipulator to get what he wants. They are…
How do you know a man is deeply in love with you? People are different; their expressions of love are also varied. However, there are certain common traits that indicate deep love. These qualities are consistency, availability, reliability, responsiveness and…
Did you know that sometimes these seemingly innocent statements are actually expressions of emotional blackmail? it is so. Not everything is what it seems. They use emotional blackmail terms for control, plain and simple. They are made solely with the…
Here’s an embarrassing truth: we’re all judgmental and we’re all biased. Over the past ten years as an MBTI® practitioner, I’ve seen the type evolve into its own weird version of high school cliques, except instead of cheerleaders and drama…
Down-to-earth and friendly, ESFJs have rightfully earned the nickname “The Defender” in the type community. Why this nickname? ESFJs are known for protecting traditions, their communities, and the values they hold dear. These types are famously loyal, attentive and helpful.…
For INFPs, choosing a job isn’t just about the pay, it’s about getting somewhere where right at a basic level. This is often an internal debate between the heart and the mind, and sometimes means rejecting the “practice” option because…
If you’re a perceiver, you probably feel like you wake up every day in a world that wants you to be a spreadsheet. Western culture is essentially a giant machine built by ESTJ-minded people. They love rules, traditions, and absolutely…
