My dears!
Maybe you think the people you love will be alone once you get your new self. Or you will take care of them forever. What you may not have noticed is that those who were once your affairs, who caused you fear and endless tasks to care for, do not necessarily change in the way you expect. Maybe the troubled child is becoming more responsible, or the sick partner or friend seems to be getting better. Or the needy neighbor moves away. It is no accident that it is so.
You don’t have the time or energy to devote your being to the needs of others. Of course, such a statement ignores the eras of selfless care. In fact, reading these words makes you feel uncomfortable and gives you reason to feel the need to continue your devotional care. If you don’t, you dream of death, disease and cruelty.
We from the Universes have to explain our words with more convenient terms. A baby needs care. If you are unable or unwilling to perform the required tasks, it is your responsibility to find someone who will. But as the child gets older, he or she needs to be given self-care tasks that allow them to function without constant care. And if your task is to care for an elderly or sick person, ask yourself what services you can provide without being exhausted. You will probably then worry about finances for those who wish to provide these services and again fall into the mindset that they are completely drained emotionally and physically and that no one is available for financial or other concerns. What do you want to create?
We return to the core piece of your new being that you either ignore or deny. What does it take to feel good and have fun? And what do you do to create this environment for yourself? Is it finances? Or do you allow your child, parent or friend to explore their self-care skills? Or do you allow others in your circle or your child’s, parent’s or friend’s circle to provide services that you are too exhausted to provide? “I can do this even when I can barely keep my eyes open or afford it” is a 3D approach to servitude. “I am the only one who can help you” is another 3D ego concept that has nothing to do with your new life.
Your new being is designed to solve problems without draining you. You are full of new skills and interests. Perhaps these new interests include serving the elderly, neighbors, or youth. If the thought of doing this makes your life sparkle, this is the right direction for you. But if you need to drag yourself out of bed to do it for that person, it’s time to create solutions that don’t require you to divert your energies from your new self into 3D work or caregiving. Such creations and thoughts are not selfish or self-serving; these are just pointers to the right direction for the new you.
You have been following 3D guidelines on Earth for eons. Policies that strongly encourage you to care for others despite denying your own needs. Now that everyone, including children, has guidelines for self-care in this new world, you will find that caring for even the smallest child will be uncomfortable. As it is with you, the small children, the elderly, the weak and the needy will feel increasingly uncomfortable as your care impairs their ability to find their place in this new world. What was once a call to “Help me” becomes irritating or has become telling them what to do and when to do it. This is the age of self-reliance, not the age of 3D caregiving or “I can’t do it, someone has to do it for me” that was so evident during the 3D Earth ages.
This does not mean that you or anyone is heartless, but that you glorify self-reliance, which has become the new calling of the Earth.
Even though you will probably be horrified by our statements this week, we need to remind you that care and neediness were important elements of the 3D pyramidal power structures you were clinging to. In this new, circular world structure, discovery, personal freedom and self-care are the dominant features. So those who choose to care for others do so because they want to; this is their area of interest. And those who no longer want to be caregivers create a system that ensures that the too young, sick, or elderly care for themselves.
You will no longer be “everything” for anyone who needs it. And you won’t blame yourself for not finding caring interesting. You fly into your new world that doesn’t require you to be everything to everyone who wants you to be or do this or that.
Do you think universal ethers require care regardless of their age? Or do you assume that the universes are probably ageless and completely capable of taking care of themselves? And so it is.
Caring is no longer a lifelong task for almost every individual on Earth. Those who wish to continue in this role, or who find it interesting now, will do so. The others fly to your new interests without concern for those who may need help because of their age, physical needs, or lack of interest in self-care.
Not everyone is willing to transition in this life. Those who don’t make the switch lack the creative skills you’ll soon take for granted. Those you are unwilling to care for can choose to transition and thus meet their needs. And those who refuse to convert despite strong demands are no longer your responsibility.
You are a new being in a new world that doesn’t involve caring unless you care to do so. So be it. Amen.
